If it's love or land that you have to choose, which one would be more significant for you? Like Aeneas and Hector, they chose to leave their families behind and fight for their country. Really it is hard choosing if it's your family or your land if you're a hero. But it is their destiny, because they are heroes.
If we would analyze everything whereas the left the families and hope that they will succeed in saving the country, there's nothing wrong. It's just that, it's their family that's left behind and family is much important than anything else. What will happen to their children? They would lack a father's cherish and love.
Of course, both family and country needs them but it is up to them on which thing they will pick. What matters most is that they should never forget their families which are truly important. They need to fight for their country and their families would understand that, because they are heroes.
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